I see a lot of people now jumping online to either find someone for a date, a friend, a hook-up or a long term relationship. You’re exposing yourself out there for everyone to see I get that.
Websites and apps are simple to use and you can start meeting the right ONE or the right NOW pretty much today…you could probably be set up in about half an hour. But, when I look back to when I first started dating (before I was married, before online, geez before the internet!
The search for love and meaningful sex, for a partner with zing, can be more fraught the second or third time around. She’d been a sucker for bad marriages and had four divorces behind her by the time she launched herself into online dating at the age of 65.
Carole is not the first Australian to chronicle her experiences with online dating.
And 35 per cent of people aged 61 and over were similarly well-disposed towards online dating.
“It gave me more options than just sitting knitting in my mountain village,” said Carole, who’d moved to the Blue Mountains and knew hardly anyone. Smooth Matthew, the cad, is her first online date, and she can’t believe her luck.
Photos can also be uploaded and need to be approved.
You should always upload photos if you are half serious about connecting.
Who would have thought in our 20s or 30s – when some of us were desperate and dateless – that the same feelings could return to plague us in our 50s, 60s and 70s?
This usually answers so many more questions we actually have to ask first when we meet someone out and about. If you Google online dating, you will be surprised what is out there but let me give you a rundown of some of the dating sites available (with a Canberra-based populous) and with my perspective on them.
Sure I’ve been set up with friends of friends or met people in a bars and the outcome is pretty much the same as if I was to meet someone via the internet, only I am likely to be able to ‘meet’ or ‘see’ a lot more potential candidates than I ever could if I spend every night out and about trying to meet someone (and who has got the time for that these days?! Online dating can also be the perfect way to connect for a single parent. The popular web based ones are e Harmony, Elite Singles, RSVP, Zoosk, Plenty of Fish, Something Serious Mature, and sorry to say that yes, I was on it for about five minutes…Strictly Cougar.
The days of stigma and secrecy about online dating are long gone.
Fifty-one per cent of adults have used an online dating service or would consider using one, a new Nielsen survey of 3,500 Australians for the dating site reveals.